Of course, the thing I most wanted to do was to walk with a horse. But I had to learn a few skills first.
How do you keep a horse from wandering away while you are walking? How do you create the desire in them to stay with you? You use draw. Its an energy pull, coming from your core.
There are three energies that are used in liberty work: Push, pause and draw.
Think about push like this. Have you ever been in a group of people, large or small, and there was someone that never said anything to you but you knew that they didn't like you. Maybe they resented you, maybe they were jealous, maybe they thought your taste in clothes was appalling. You didn't know why, but you could feel them pushing you away. Maybe when you left, you turned to a friend and said "what's up with her/him?"
Contrast that with: If you catch a close friend's eye across a crowded room and they light up; you can see that they are excited to see you, that they want you to cross that room and join them -- you would go, right? That's draw.
|Working on draw with Red|
After learning some of the building block skills, Robin asked me to practice walking with Red in the arena.
The next day, we practiced in the large pasture. The pasture is vast, covering the top of the hill and sliding down to vineyards. There were other horses in the pasture and they were all standing with us.
I called Red to my side and off we went. It was beyond amazing. Red stuck with me. A few times, he started to drift off and I used draw to bring him back, close to me. If my energy level dropped, he lost interest so I had to stay engaged, confident and positive.
Later, we did it again in a different pasture, a distance from the barn.
After walking around for awhile, Robin opened the gate and said, "walk with him back to the barn." We went out the gate. I turned left for the barn, and Red turned right for more grass. In fact, he took off trotting for another pasture. Robin walked after him and he came to her, then they walked together, at liberty, to the barn. So, it takes practice and they don't always say yes -- but what a cool experience it is to connect in that way.