Wednesday, November 22, 2017

Wednesday with Tex: The Limits of Trust

Last weekend, Brett and I were out of town celebrating our anniversary.

While we were gone, Tex lost a shoe.  Our horse sitter found the shoe and put it in the barn.  I sent the farrier a text and to let him know -- and also suggested that he come out after we returned home since Tex might be difficult to catch.

When the farrier arrived, Brett moved Flash into the barn.  When Tex is left alone in the pasture without his buddy Flash (goats don't count as company, in his mind), Tex becomes very motivated to be caught so he can join Flash.  Brett typically does not have any trouble catching Tex anymore (Tex knows that Brett always has cookies on his person), but it is an extra measure ensuring success.

Our farrier gets along very well with Tex.  He is calm and kind, and Tex stands quietly for his shoeing.  The farrier knows Tex's trust issues and has spent time showing Tex that he understands.  So, when the farrier asked Brett if he could try catching Tex, Brett gave him a handful of cookies and sent him to the pasture.

Tex said no.  Tex didn't run away but he stayed at a safe distance, circling and refusing to let the farrier approach.  After a few minutes, Brett went into the pasture and took the halter.  Tex was fine with Brett approaching and slipping on the halter -- which made Brett happy.  A year ago, that wouldn't have been the case.

So, Tex has become almost a pocket pony with me and he trusts Brett -- but that is clearly as far as it goes.  Its good to know.

4 comments:

  1. Interesting about the farrier. Even though he knows him and doesn’t have a problem getting shod he didn’t trust him enough to be caught. Tex has come a long way with his trust issues. Apparently he really trusts you and Brett so that’s a good thing. Happy Anniversary! Just celebrated ours too.

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  2. I think that would be considered smart when you think about it as a survival mechanism. It’s good he has learned to trust you and Brett. Happy Anniversary! And happy Thanksgiving, too!

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  3. That is interesting with Tex. Obviously he's not one to trust easily. It speaks to the work that you have done with him.

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  4. An American in TokyoNovember 23, 2017 at 8:57 PM

    Interesting!!
    I wonder if he had a bad experience with men in the past...

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